Why are people ruder on social media?

The anonymity factor contributes to online rudeness and trolls, Wallace notes, "but the latest research says that it's actually a lack of eye contact that allows us to be particularly rude to people." A recent study from the University of Haifa in Israel, published in the journal Computers in Human Behavior, has shown ...

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The digital era: The time where instead of asking for personal recommendations, potential job matches are asking for your social media handles. The time where a mailing list has replaced the infamous address book. Where "Google" is now in the dictionary—as both a verb and a noun. And, on top of all that, the time of online trolls or "haters." The proud authors of those mean, insulting and downright rude comments left on your social media. Many experts contend that social media has contributed to an attitude of rudeness. "People feel they have to share their opinions on everything, everywhere, at all times, even if backed up by scant knowledge," says Danny Wallace, author of the book F*** You Very Much: The Surprising Truth About Why People Are So Rude. "And then they have to broadcast that opinion, importantly, and in a forthright manner so that they cut through the noise. Rudeness cuts through." His research on the psychology of rudeness can give us key insights into what's going on right now and what we can do to become more empathetic.

The Psychology of Trolls

A paper published in the Journal of Personality and Individual Differences was able to profile Internet users based on their online commenting frequency. The results from this research "revealed similar patterns of relations between trolling and the Dark Tetrad of personality: trolling correlated positively with sadism, psychopathy, and Machiavellianism, using both enjoyment ratings and identity scores." They also found that there was a distinct difference between "cyber-trolling" and debating, the latter being completely unrelated to sadism. The anonymity factor contributes to online rudeness and trolls, Wallace notes, "but the latest research says that it’s actually a lack of eye contact that allows us to be particularly rude to people." A recent study from the University of Haifa in Israel, published in the journal Computers in Human Behavior, has shown precisely that. Its results "suggested that of the three independent variables, lack of eye-contact was the chief contributor to the negative effects of online disinhibition." But why do online trolls affect us so much? Why do we take it so personally when—in reality—their trolling speaks far more to their mental health than ours? "People appreciate diplomacy. People appreciate being respected and heard. That’s why rudeness has such an effect on us psychologically," Wallace explains. "We feel immediately dismissed, put-upon, disrespected. And we will go to some pretty dark places to gain that respect back, it turns out. Rudeness often leads to revenge."

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The Effect of Rudeness on Our Health

If you're anything like me, you often struggle with confrontation. More than just yelling at the driver of the car that just cut in line, you're not one for calling people out when they're being rude. But this can sometimes backfire. "Rudeness spreads like a cold. Even witnessing rudeness is enough for us to become infected, psychologically, and for us to carry it with us after that. If someone is persistently rude to you at work, say, the psychological effects can lead to physical effects, just as we know stress can," Wallace mentions. Rudeness is almost like a neurotoxin, a poisonous substance that negatively affects our nervous system. As such, it affects the way we think, act, and feel. It affects our executive functions and has a direct relationship with our brain health. In Wallace's words, "rudeness is an invisible killer and one we don’t yet take seriously enough because we are only just seeing the effect that bad or aggressive behavior has on the frontal lobes—which we need for working memory, concentration, and problem-solving, for example. Lives can be at risk." When we take into account that social media has potentially doubled the exposure of rudeness for us, we can begin to comprehend just the type of epidemic we are faced with. Think about it. Before, it was just face-to-face interactions (which, don't be fooled, can sometimes have an even more lasting effect than digital ones). But now, we can be treated rudely in infinite scenarios—at work, getting our morning coffee, at the bus station, on Instagram, Facebook, or Twitter. Sometimes it can become too much, and our health may be suffering the consequences.

Gender Differences in Rudeness

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I mentioned before how I sometimes struggle to call people out for their rudeness. It turns out that it's not uncommon for women to feel this way, particularly in the workplace. Researchers from the Lund University in Sweden found a relationship between workplace incivility and workplace dissatisfaction. Their conclusions are that "unpleasant behavior spreads if nothing is done about it." For women, the plot thickens. "Rude men are often described as ‘driven, determined, aggressive’, but if a woman is described as ‘aggressive,’ it’s seen as a very bad thing. Women themselves fear being branded that way because they’ve been raised to understand people don’t want to work with a ‘bitch’ or someone 'abrasive.' Bastards have it much easier than b*tches," Wallace explains. There's a fine line between being completely silent and turning to rudeness. Assertiveness, one comes to understand, becomes much easier said than done. And this is precisely Wallace's recommendation for tackling rudeness. The "Looking Glass Effect", a term coined by Horton Cooley explains that we can learn a whole lot from ourselves by the way we interact with other people. In that way, society plays an important role in the way we perceive ourselves. Following this premise, and Wallace's future thoughts on the topic of rudeness, "we need to call out rudeness when we see it. Hold up that looking glass [to others]." But at the same time, "we need to pick and choose how we accept it and when we find it refreshing."

And above anything else: deep breaths and serenity never miss the mark.

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